Convivium Social
Phoenix MetroLadies & gentlemen, 21+Free entry

A feast where friends live it up.

Real parties. Real conversation. Real laughter. A social club for people who'd rather meet in a room than on a screen, with a personal concierge so nobody stands alone.

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con·viv·i·um
kon-VIV-ee-um  ·  noun, Latin

A feast where friends live it up together.


Two thousand years later, still the best cure for loneliness.
Why we exist

Social moved onto screens. We're moving it back.

Apps, feeds and filtered photos took the human touch out of being social. People are craving the opposite.

Love yourself

You're good company. Walk in like you know it, and the right people find you.

Be yourself

No facades, no ego, no performing. The real you is the one people will like.

Laugh a lot

Fun, laughter and happiness are our primary elixir. The party is the medicine.

How a night works

Three phone-free hours. One great room.

No bell, no timer, no awkward standing by the wall. Here's what to expect.

Sign up

Join the guest list on this site. Every guest signs up before attending.

Get your pass

We text you a link to your QR code. It's scanned at the door.

Phone Depot

Check your phone at the door and take a claim ticket. Leave your baggage too.

Meet & mingle

Your concierge makes introductions and moves small groups around the room.

Memory Time

After three hours, phones come back out for photos and swapping numbers.

The gracious goodbye

When your concierge invites a group to move on, it's a handshake, a thank-you, a smile, and on to the next circle. Moving on is part of the party, never a rejection. If two people want to keep talking, they'll find each other later.

Upcoming socials

Balanced rooms, every time.

Every event shows the live headcount and the ladies/gentlemen split, so you can see the room is balanced before you arrive. Drinks are on you, Dutch style.

Fri · Nov 14 · 7 pm

Signature Cocktail Social

Partner bar · Old Town Scottsdale
DressSemi-formal
Guests
Reserve a spot
Sat · Nov 22 · 6 pm

Casino Night

Partner bar · Downtown Phoenix
DressBusiness casual
Guests
Reserve a spot
Sat · Dec 6 · 8 pm

Black-Tie Holiday Feast

Partner bar · Tempe
DressFormal
Guests
Reserve a spot

Sample events for illustration. Coming soon: rooftop nights, pool parties, trivia, hikes, golf, pickleball and lake days.

The Ladies & Gentlemen's code

Not a rulebook. Just a reminder.

Culture is everything. Every guest agrees to the code, and anyone who can't keep it is politely excused.

01

Leave your baggage at the door

The bad day, the breakup and the ego stay outside. Bring your best self and your sense of humor.

02

Love yourself

You're good company. Walk in like you know it.

03

Be yourself

No facades, no ego. The real you is the one people will like.

04

Respect, always

Treat every guest the way you'd want your mother, sister or brother treated.

05

Kindness first

No put-downs, no eye-rolls, no gossip. Everyone here is a little nervous too.

06

Celebrate differences

Different is good. Be curious about people who aren't like you.

07

Not everyone is meant for everyone

Not clicking with someone isn't a failure.

08

But everyone has someone

There is someone who will like you exactly as you are.

09

Laugh a lot

Fun and happiness are the point.

More than a party

We throw the parties. We teach the confidence.

Parties & outings

  • Signature socialsCocktail parties and dress-up nights with hosted introductions
  • Pool parties & rooftop nightsPlus bar crawls across the Valley
  • Outdoor daysHikes, golf, pickleball and lake days. Phoenix has the weather for it
  • Big outingsConcerts, festivals and games with a club meeting spot
  • Game & theme nightsCasino nights, trivia and decade parties

Love-yourself programs

  • Confidence workshopsHow to walk into a room, start a conversation and enjoy it
  • Coaching sessionsSmall-group and one-on-one help rebuilding your social life
  • Life-skills trainingManners, conversation, presence: the old-school social graces
Questions

Good to know

Is this a dating club?

No. We're a social club. We're here to meet people and have a great time, not for hookups or dates. If romance happens on its own, wonderful.

What does it cost?

Entry is free. Everyone buys their own drinks, Dutch style.

Why do I have to give up my phone?

The first three hours are phone-free so you can be with the people in the room. Your phone comes back at Memory Time for photos and swapping numbers. Need it sooner? No hard feelings: collect it, head out, and join us next time.

What should I wear?

Each event sets its own dress code: business casual, semi-formal or formal. Never provocative.

What if I come alone?

Most people do. Your concierge greets you at the door, makes your first introduction and makes sure nobody is left standing alone.

Who can join?

We're launching in Phoenix Metro for ladies and gentlemen aged 21 and over. 18–20 formats and special-interest clubs are coming later.

Join the guest list

Love yourself. The rest follows.

Sign up once and we'll text you event news, reminders and the QR pass you'll show at the door. Guest lists are balanced, so spots open in waves.

You're on the list.

Watch for a text with your QR pass. Leave your baggage at the door.